Sunday, January 27, 2019

Engaging the new generation


I didn’t feel the Mindset List was as entertaining as it should have been even though it did contain many culturally significant yet extinct circumstances. As my children are still in elementary school, when I think of differences in our upbringing, I often refer them to times when I would walk to the toy store in our downtown, or the 5th Street Mini Mart so my friend and I could buy cookies and whipped cream and mix them all up when we made our way back home. In fifth or sixth grade another friend and I used to spend long summer days riding our bikes with little fear of anyone hassling us. We had an entirely different life perspective. We had freedom to make our own choices and learn from our mistakes. Even modern moms who are highly trained in early childhood development often make the mistake of smothering their children or not allowing them to fail. I foresee a generation of kids who can rightly blame their parents for so much of their life because we’re there for everything.
I also long for the days when a book was the purest form of entertainment. My seven year-old son must be forcibly removed from his Xbox each and every day after the allotted time has expired. He doesn’t play video games all the time. He watches other people do exciting things and seems to think we live in a world where everything is either disposable, i.e., someone else is paying, or is a prop used for a grand experiment. He’s not alone. Many kids in this generation, I believe, will suffer effects from too much screen time that are beyond what we currently have research to describe. I also think the family dinner is even more absent than it was a decade ago. If a family has a parent staying at home and the second parent is home every night and doesn’t work retail or second shift, chances are someone has a meeting or an activity in the evening. No one is exempt except a small few resolute to maintain that vestige of a grand tradition. People from all walks of life are filling their evenings with running here or there in some shape or form.
This generation also doesn’t know what it’s like to not know the answer to something. Everything is on the Internet. Sir Ken Robinson mentioned that “knowledge is about what you don’t know” (Robinson 2014). What happens when we think we know everything? Will we still have an intense desire to seek answers? As I’m a bit older than many of my classmates, I grew up with vastly different teaching styles than what the current research and standards call teachers to embody. In my particular field, I would imagine that I would grow and learn along with my students. The questions and problems a historian, economist, or political scientist could seek to uncover are rather limitless. I think that in a world that is living in someone else’s reality and lacking practicality, it’ll be important to teach students how to frame a problem and quickly devise a workable solution to find a solution. In this insane age of online media where we’re bombarded with information, students do need to be able to quickly discern whether they’re looking at information that is credible and how much so. It can be a very grey area. I’m looking forward to the challenge!

Friday, October 16, 2009

Birthdays in the Modern Era

Yesterday was my 31st birthday and, as a present to myself, I decided to start a blog. It's truthfully more like a present to my husband. This may help free him of listening to *all* of my rambling on subjects about which he just doesn't care. Happy Birthday to you, Paul.

Incidentally, yesterday was also my brother's birthday. I've noticed more and more that people respond to their birthdays along one of several veins. There are those who really have to make a big stink about it. For them, something's not quite right in the universe unless they have the whole world singing to them. Then there are those who have moms and grandmas and girlfriends MAKING a big deal about it, but who would prefer to fly under the radar and forget that they're growing any older. There are also those who have enough life experience to know not to have any expectations whatsoever. I'm not there yet.

For me, birthdays have always been supremely bittersweet. On the one hand, a secondary definition of adulthood is just that - bittersweet. My family always takes it to the next level . . . like the birthday on which my parents told me they were divorcing. Or when my brother, who shares the same birthday, picked a fight with me a week prior and we ended up not speaking that year. I believe that was the same year that a good friend and I spent the day at Joe's on Weed Street in Chicago watching football. His car was towed and we had to walk through the ghetto to pick it up. Back at the bar the power went out in the middle of the games. I ended the day by getting sick on the side of the road in front of a police officer. No one cared. Then there was the time my fiance had dumped me three weeks earlier and my family had the nerve to order food from a place of my brother's choosing. I ended up sitting by myself at my mother's house. Sorry guys, I'm not eating Bennigan's on my birthday.

I'm really not looking for sympathy. This year was bittersweet in a way that's a little too personal to share for my first blog, and yet I had a fantastic day. I wish every day could be like yesterday. I learned a couple things. First, I have an awesome husband who knows the perfect mix of how to care for me. Secondly, in these technological times, we all have a zillion Facebook friends wishing us Happy Birthday, making it impossible for us to feel sorry for ourselves. Finally, as a fairly new mom, I learned what it was like to not feel guilt for the first time in a long time. I sat on the computer, watched tv, and was generally very lazy all day. It felt fabulous. I would encourage all moms around the globe to try it. Make a conscious effort to relieve yourself of guilt for one whole day. Just try it. You'll live longer. Now if my toddler would give me a few minutes to catch up with all those wonderful old friends on Facebook, I could continue the buzz.

That's all I have for now. This is going to be a great year. 31 is my lucky number, after all. I'll leave you with the Fun Fact of the Day. Did you know that they White House Communications Director, (Anita Hun, I mean Dunn,) counts Mao Tse-tung as one of her two favorite political philosophers to whom she looks for wisdom? Now that's leadership! If you're not sure of who exactly Chairman Mao is, there's a great book called Safely Home by Randy Alcorn that spells it out nicely. Make sure you tell your friends.

Kelsey

"No natural love of the heart is safe unless the human heart has been satisfied by God first."
- Oswald Chambers